Reading Victor Moses’ story was one of the most riveting and
emotional moments for me in the African Nations Cup. While Nigeria’s victory
brought much needed sunshine through the dark clouds that have enveloped this
nation over a period of time owing to the various negative reports and
happenings, Victor’s story gave me hope that something good can still come out
of Nigeria.
Describing his decision to play for Nigeria after such a
harrowing experience at such a tender age as being merely patriotic is at best
putting the matter lightly. It is nothing short of the personification of the
word “forgiveness”; and the exhibition in grand style of the resilient nature
of the human spirit.
Incidentally, Victor
and I are namesakes and are equally forever inextricably linked through the
sectarian violence of Kaduna, haven been living in that city at the time of the
riots. My mother just happened to have escaped death by minutes as she was in
the Central Market buying fruits for a supply she had to make that Monday
morning. In fact, while driving from the market, she had already started seeing
people being attacked. She got home safe by the grace of God.
People lost their lives, and those that were lucky:
possessions. I saw and experienced firsthand smoke bellowing from houses,
neighbours turning on each other, confusion, anguish, raw havoc, and burnt
remains of what use to be a human being. Gruesome images forever indelible
etched in the memories of people and causing psychological, social, and
economic shock and trauma that naturally accompanies such. Forgive me for my
attempt at being so graphic, yet my description cannot aptly describe the scene
as only a personal experience (though not wished on anyone) can.
To come through all of these, and still decide to represent
a country where such pain was fraught on you, through the inaction or delayed
actions of the government, represent the very people that deprived one at such
a young age of not only the presence of parents
but also the “condiments“ that accompany their presence is far above
patriotism. It’s saintly!
Such a decision not only threatens to portray one as
condoning what happened, but also runs the risk of being seen as a spite on the
memory of the souls departed while also reeking of ingratitude to the country
that accepted you, the society that catered to and for you, while the very one
that owned you, and should have been responsible for your violently spewed you
out.
While to some it is arguable(however erroneous), that his
decision to play for Nigeria may have been borne out of the realization that
the chances of playing for England were slim as is the case with many black
players that have played for them at age grade level. Whatever the case, it is
worthy of note and commendation. I like other soccer loving Nigerians, are
happy he did and was in South Africa. More so when other players who have never
had to deal with such an experience turned down the offer; or other sports
men/women change nationalities later on: the person wey say you can’t change
horses mid stream, never hear of Naija before be that: the land where anything
can happen.
Victor’s action has taught us a valuable lesson in
forgiveness and showed us that the exhibition of this spirit of forgiveness that
resides in all of us is only hampered by our decision to exercise it. The
moment we do decide, it not only sets us free of the pain and hurt but also
enables us to build on that experience and produce beauty from ashes.
Forgiveness frees everyone tied to that experience to live
again and eventually make right their lives and the relationship that existed
prior to the event.
The fact that he even agreed to come back home and
participate the way he did, is a good start. I pray that the joy and happiness
that his massive contributions to the success of the Super Eagles has brought
to a country that has been itching for some good news, any good news,
especially as it concerns our football will stay with him and his family for a
very long time to come.
God bless you and your family Victor Moses.
Yeah we all appreciate his comitment, skill & patriotism. Mr Drisu u ve said it all
ReplyDeleteGood work sir... I agree with Akoji. U'v said it all.. Nyc work
ReplyDeleteIt's not enough for us all to read such a beautiful story and be inspired by it but for us all within our spheres of contact and loci of control to adopt the attitude of Victor Moses and see if this country would not become a better place to be, i.e. for us all to become selfless and love one another and have each others back.
ReplyDeleteVery nice Victor. Thanks.
Its very inspiring!!! The worth of his actions and such forgiveness will only come from a very VERY large heart!!! However forgiveness can only be appreviated when there is remoursfulness on the path of the goverenment... What have they done or are the doing to ensure history will never repeat itself?? Its still happening.. People are still living in fear withour a promise... Nice writing victor keep us entertained!!!
ReplyDeleteVictor Moses has the heart of a champion. Can Nigerians emulate that? Yes...but it'll take a reconstruction of our psyche as a nation. Long live Nigeria. Nice write up
ReplyDeleteVictor Moses have not just shown us the act of patriotism but also displayed that he has the heart of forgiveness. He choose Nigeria over England at time when we needed his service the most. Pushing aside the pain of loosing both parents in the hands of those that should have protected them... Fellow Nigerians!!
ReplyDeleteExcellent write up Victor. Keep it coming.